The Law of Love
The Law of Love states that there is a specific type of energy that is generated by the bonding of two or more things intended to be together, that holds them together against adversity. Now, people tend to get this confused, so please, pay attention. Love is energy. It is not just mushy, gushy, touchy, feely words, emotions or behavior. When you meet someone that you believe can satisfy a need you have (for sex, companionship, partnership, parenting, social influence, et cetera), that is “attraction”, not love. When that person feels the way that you do and shares your interest, that is “compatibility”, not love. When the two of you want to be together, perhaps forever, that is “desire”, not love. When these three states come together (attraction, compatibility and desire), your body produces intoxicating substances that alter your state of mind and change the way that you think and act. That exaggerated response to your relationship is called “infatuation”, not love. Love is the energy produced by the two of you together, when “togetherness” is intended by you both, AND the universe. It holds you together against adversity. It satisfies desires and potentials. It is complimentary and fulfilling. Love is what weathers the storm of naysayers, poor finances, illness, disagreement, bad sex, weight gain and disfigurement. Love is respect, admiration, support, negotiation, cooperation, reassurance and encouragement. Love DOES NOT keep you in an abusive relationship. That is called” DENIAL”. Abuse is not “adversity”. Abuse is a contraindication! Abuse in your relationship is an indication that your relationship was not intended to be. If you refuse to walk away from an abusive relationship, YOU ARE DRUNK! Infatuation is not only intoxicating, it can be psychologically addictive. Get counseling; at least until you are certain that the abuse is over. Ok, I’m done with my sermon. I hope you got the point. Love is the energy that keeps electrons orbiting the nucleus in an atom. Love holds two or more atoms together in a molecule. Love is what permits the perception of solidity in the illusion of a “physical” world. Love is what makes the things that I manifest mine, and not things that I diverted from someone else. Love is a point of “right”. Things are held together by love when they are intended to be together; when they satisfy the directives of infinite intelligence. With love, one party need not do anything to the other party to keep them bound. Now, with people in love, one party may have to work on him or herself to accept the other person as they are. One party may have to work on him or herself, to be who the other party wants to remain with. But, neither party needs to “work on” the other party to make the relationship work. If you feel that you must change someone in order to stay with them, you have “desire”, not love. When you will accept them as they are, and concede that YOUR attitude may need adjustment, THEN, there may be love in the air. I am not, however, suggesting that you should overlook “serious” problems. If he keeps stealing your stuff, that’s a serious problem. If she keeps lying to you, that’s a serious problem. I’m suggesting that you consider adjusting your attitude about things like her snort when she laughs, or his snoring when he sleeps, or your frustration at constantly finding the cap off of the toothpaste. Changing the way that you view, and manage, such circumstances, may allow you to stay in what is otherwise a good and loving relationship. However, beware; the bonding power of love is defeated by indifference. Love draws its power from the intensity of intent. As the intent to stay together decreases, so to does the bonding power of love. At the point when the intent to stay together is sufficiently low, the bond is subject to destruction by adversity. And, even when the bond is not impacted by adversity, the loss of intent, due to indifference, may progress to the point where love can no longer hold the bond together. Where there is love and desire for the relationship to survive, the parties must strive to prevent indifference. To survive in love, the relationship must MATTER! It must remain meaningful. It must serve a purpose and be important. The relationship must be tended to and reinforced with acts that are supportive of love’s nature (respect, admiration, support, negotiation, cooperation, reassurance and encouragement). When a bond has fulfilled its potential, serves no further purpose, or is lacking in intent; when the parties are indifferent to the bond; infinite intelligence will release the bonding energy of love, thus freeing the respective cores of intent to form new bonds. The law of love can elevate your level of consciousness, and aid your ability to manifest. Think about it. Adversity; obstacles, challenges and hardships are the key causes of negative thoughts, actions and emotions in your life. Negativity lowers your level of consciousness. So, naturally, anything that tends to shield us from the effects of adversity permits easier maintenance and elevation of our consciousness level. It is in your best interest to seek, create and/or permit loving relationships wherever you can. Again, be clear about what love is, and what it is not. Love is respect, admiration, support, negotiation, cooperation, reassurance and encouragement. It is not about sex or attraction. It is not about desire, compatibility or infatuation. People in loving relationships want what is best for the other person. They want to be supportive and encouraging. They want to be helpful and cooperative. They want to be reassuring and to negotiate fairly. They want to have a relationship that is mutually benefitting. When you demonstrate love toward others, without placing conditions on it, it will, more likely than not, be demonstrated in return. You will feel grateful for what you have to offer, and for what you receive. When you are in loving relationships, it is easier to maintain the state of
acceptance
; plus,
cause and effect
and
reciprocity
will work to your benefit. When you give of yourself, out of love, infinite intelligence will return to you transmuted energy designed to support your desires. This return of energy adds to your core of intention. It raises your level of consciousness; and it amplifies your ability to attract. Love is the bond felt by those who think alike. Love is the bond of those who share blood relation. Love is the bond in common struggles. Love is the bond in clubs and societies. Love is the bond behind national pride. Love is the bond of those from similar cultures. Love is what unites humanity. I encourage you to practice love toward every person, thing and situation. I understand that it is not your nature to do that, nor is it easy. But, you will find that not only are we all the same, in the eyes of the eternal source, but in everything there is something that will benefit us. When we learn to look for and appreciate these offerings, we will learn to stay in a state of grace and acceptance. When you resist the formation of loving relationships, you are as far out of alignment with the laws of the universe as you can get. If you understand the law of love, you understand that all things spring from one source. And, if love is what holds forms together, then YOU are held together by love. By demonstrating love toward all things, you create a state of love acceptance. This keeps open the maximum number of channels for delivery of all things desired. When you close the door on a relationship (or potential relationship), you block a potential avenue of delivery. If you wish to successfully manifest your desires on a consistent basis, you must align with the law of love. Seeking ways to demonstrate love toward others honors your essence and demonstrates gratitude for your existence.
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